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<rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" version="2.0"><channel><atom:link rel="hub" href="http://tumblr.superfeedr.com/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom"/><description></description><title>leadership notes from the inside</title><generator>Tumblr (3.0; @melissadaimler)</generator><link>http://melissadaimler.com/</link><item><title>good &amp; great</title><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;p class="p1"&gt;&lt;span class="s1"&gt;good coaches based on experience; great coaches based on possibilities.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="p1"&gt;&lt;span class="s1"&gt;good does things right; great does the right things.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="p1"&gt;&lt;span class="s1"&gt;good controls; great lets go.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="p1"&gt;&lt;span class="s1"&gt;good creates strategy; great re-imagines how it could be done.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="p1"&gt;&lt;span class="s1"&gt;good shares with each other; great learns from each other.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="p1"&gt;&lt;span class="s1"&gt;good strives for perfection; great launches at happy.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="p1"&gt;&lt;span class="s1"&gt;good listens. great debates.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="p1"&gt;&lt;span class="s1"&gt;good asks others how you’re doing; great asks YOU “how are you?” &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="p1"&gt;&lt;span class="s1"&gt;good is there when you need her; great is there even when you don’t. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="p1"&gt;&lt;span class="s1"&gt;good talks. great listens. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="p1"&gt;&lt;span class="s1"&gt;good knows its crowded; great knows there’s room for everyone.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="p1"&gt;&lt;span class="s1"&gt;good pretends to be happy. great is happy.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="p1"&gt;&lt;span class="s1"&gt;&lt;img height="500" src="http://dee-e.com/files/gimgs/14_goodgreatinsideflat.png" width="654"/&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://melissadaimler.com/post/21836024151</link><guid>http://melissadaimler.com/post/21836024151</guid><pubDate>Wed, 25 Apr 2012 22:36:00 -0700</pubDate></item><item><title>Thanks, Seth</title><description>&lt;p&gt;Everything Seth Godin writes, I read. He makes things simple, relevant and provocative.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;1) Simple&amp;#8212;his blogs aren&amp;#8217;t long. They&amp;#8217;re&amp;#8217; usually in bullets. They&amp;#8217;re easy to read. He writes with more periods. I read longer blogs. I read articles. I still even read some books. Yet anyone who can give me the essence of what they&amp;#8217;re thinking in a few short thoughts is invaluable to me.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;2) Relevant&amp;#8212;Seth&amp;#8217;s ideas and thoughts speak to me. They have to do with everyday life. They&amp;#8217;re useful. They&amp;#8217;re actionable. They&amp;#8217;re real. They&amp;#8217;re not trying.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;3) Provocative&amp;#8212;Seth asks questions. He has me pause. I look at things differently. I think about what he has to say and how I agree, disagree, relate or not. He pulls me toward my ideas vs. pushing me against his. He assures me that deleting words is OK. Less is much, much more.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;img height="239" src="https://encrypted-tbn1.google.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcTVyVBWAnNJzwSpdTgFJyWjCJvPaZkGA7TaINZRUzrettvjnKI-" width="211"/&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;thanks, Seth. &lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://melissadaimler.com/post/21102830849</link><guid>http://melissadaimler.com/post/21102830849</guid><pubDate>Sat, 14 Apr 2012 13:42:00 -0700</pubDate></item><item><title>Let's All Do Great Work</title><description>&lt;p&gt;I had the privilege of being a contributor to a book that was created from an idea Michael Bungay Stanier had, author of &lt;span&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.amazon.com/dp/0761156445/" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span&gt;Do More Great Work&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/a&gt;. The idea of the book came from the premise that you can create great work&amp;#8212;work that matters, that you care about, that makes a difference. His “great work” became a cause for which 62 contributors would share their ideas about great work. The book is called “End Malaria” and $10 —the cost of a mosquito net—going toward ending malaria.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;I love the idea of focusing on a project and making it your “great work”. I shared how we’re doing that with learning at Adobe—through technology, relationships and ourselves. Check it out. I hope you’re inspired as I am by Michael’s idea and how you can turn any idea into not only a reality, but a cause. We are all great leaders with great ideas that can make a difference.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;a href="http://endmalariaday.com/learning-in-the-new-world-of-work/" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;a href="http://endmalariaday.com/learning-in-the-new-world-of-work/" target="_blank"&gt;http://endmalariaday.com/learning-in-the-new-world-of-work/&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;a href="http://endmalariaday.com/learning-in-the-new-world-of-work/" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;img height="150" width="175" src="http://www.blogher.com/files/imagecache/promo_160/images/offers/EndMalaria.jpg"/&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://melissadaimler.com/post/9985763470</link><guid>http://melissadaimler.com/post/9985763470</guid><pubDate>Thu, 08 Sep 2011 21:29:45 -0700</pubDate></item><item><title>Stirring Emotions </title><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;I just went to STAN/Tedx this past weekend (Society, technology, art and Nature) put on by Stanford University. Once again I wasn&amp;#8217;t surprised that the presenters who most moved me and others were the ones who told stories and stirred emotions. Jennifer Aaker, a Stanford professor, urged us to swab our cheeks to donate bone marrow. This could&amp;#8217;ve been a dull speech on the importance of donating, listing statistic after statistic that would seemingly compel people to at least THINK about swabbing our cheek. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;Instead, Jennifer told a love story. A story about a man who had cancer and because he was a minority, did not have a donor match. His friend, determined to find a match, used social networking to make people aware and take action, ensuring the perfect match between his friend and a donor.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;It reminded me once again of the importance of storytelling—not just because people like stories but because it stirs something inside of us so big that we can&amp;#8217;t help but take action.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;I swabbed both cheeks and became a donor.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;What are your stories? How do we create stories around the every day lessons?&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;Check out the story here:&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.slideshare.net/DragonflyEffect/creating-infectious-action-innovation-uncensored" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.slideshare.net/DragonflyEffect/creating-infectious-action-innovation-uncensored" target="_blank"&gt;http://www.slideshare.net/DragonflyEffect/creating-infectious-action-innovation-uncensored&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;then, I came home, only to watch another Ted video about the importance of smiling&amp;#8230;my emotions stirred again in a different way. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;smile and we can live longer&amp;#8230;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.ted.com/talks/ron_gutman_the_hidden_power_of_smiling.html" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.ted.com/talks/ron_gutman_the_hidden_power_of_smiling.html" target="_blank"&gt;http://www.ted.com/talks/ron_gutman_the_hidden_power_of_smiling.html&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;img height="574" width="488" src="http://www.freebabywallpapers.com/thumbnails/large_Cute_Smiling_Baby_Girl_25864.jpg"/&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://melissadaimler.com/post/5790269833</link><guid>http://melissadaimler.com/post/5790269833</guid><pubDate>Mon, 23 May 2011 20:16:20 -0700</pubDate></item><item><title>Dance, Paint, Color</title><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Brenda Ueland wrote in her book, &amp;#8220;If You Want to Write&amp;#8221; that everyone has a creative streak inside of them…that we’re all yearning to write, to express, to paint, to dance, to do something. Yet, we lock it inside of ourselves. We don’t color, we don’t imagine, we don’t explore, we don’t let ourselves color outside of the lines, we don’t finish what we started, what we dreamed. We get locked up in the way things are supposed to be. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;It’s time to come out. It&amp;#8217;s time to incorporate creativity into our daily expression&amp;#8212;regardless of what you do, where you work, or who you are.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;img src="http://www.quiltershomemag.com/images/articles/images/coloring_outside_the_lines_med.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://melissadaimler.com/post/3339800892</link><guid>http://melissadaimler.com/post/3339800892</guid><pubDate>Wed, 16 Feb 2011 20:41:59 -0800</pubDate></item><item><title>Just Three</title><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;This time of year is often a time for reflection as well as a time to create the future. I’m reading a lot of blogs and articles about New Year’s resolutions. In our Pilates class today, the instructor said, “Folks—you need to squeeze in closer since we’re always a little more crowded in the New Year, but this will last just a few weeks, so bear with us”. We all laughed, but not at the others, at ourselves—she was talking to us. We are all goal-oriented. We mean well when we create those big resolutions. We also mean well when we talk about why we didn’t accomplish them. I think there are three main reasons for not accomplishing our goals:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span&gt;We are overloaded&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;span&gt;. We have too much information to process already and we expect to hold another 10 goals in our minds…and accomplish them! We need to focus on just a few. So, for a 2010 reflection and 2011 success, let’s simplify with the “power of three”. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;What are you most proud of accomplishing in 2010?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;What do you wish you could’ve done more of?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;What did you learn?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Repeat for 2011 on what you want to accomplish, do more of and learn.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;We aren’t lazy. &lt;strong&gt;We are lazy at prioritizing!&lt;/strong&gt; We are all VERY busy at being efficient, but are we being effective? We see each other race to meetings hoping to only be 5 minutes late, we multi-task (typing and looking up now and then to the person across from you saying “uh huh”) and wondering why we’re so exhausted at the end of the day. 2011 is the year of the Rabbit, but we can be &amp;#8220;slow and strategic&amp;#8221; rabbits vs. &amp;#8220;fast and furious&amp;#8221; ones.  I often don’t end meetings on time. If there’s no natural break in the conversation, I let the person finish, which makes me late for the next meeting, and so it goes—another day of being late for every meeting. I will end and start meetings on time this year, be ruthless in managing my priorities, and giving myself space to create, innovate and focus—one thing at a time.  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span&gt;We try to let go of old habits without creating new, positive ones (!)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;span&gt; Instead of drinking the sugar-free Monster drinks (which, yes, admittedly, I love!) I am now drinking green tea, vitamin water or some other energy drink that is healthier for me. Instead of continuing to try to get up at 4:30 AM on a consistent basis, I’m focusing on a habit of going to bed earlier so it’s easier for me to get up at that time. One of my good friends, Debbie Phillips, creates a theme each year that grounds her focus. My theme this year is “Positive Habits”.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt; So, there you have it. Another blog on the New Year, but one that will hopefully help you think a little differently from 2010.  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt; Cheers to Three: A year of simplicity, priorities, and positivity. &lt;img height="256" width="320" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_tf3xzYSwahA/TRlxSCJhOtI/AAAAAAAAAc4/SG6N_J3TQNk/s320/Happy_New_Year_2011-05.jpg"/&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://melissadaimler.com/post/2591279455</link><guid>http://melissadaimler.com/post/2591279455</guid><pubDate>Mon, 03 Jan 2011 20:30:00 -0800</pubDate><category>productivity</category><category>new year</category><category>positivity</category><category>habits</category><category>goals</category><category>priorities</category></item><item><title>one of my favorite videos of 2010</title><description>&lt;iframe width="400" height="243" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/Cbk980jV7Ao?wmode=transparent&amp;autohide=1&amp;egm=0&amp;hd=1&amp;iv_load_policy=3&amp;modestbranding=1&amp;rel=0&amp;showinfo=0&amp;showsearch=0" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen&gt;&lt;/iframe&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;one of my favorite videos of 2010&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://melissadaimler.com/post/2467622927</link><guid>http://melissadaimler.com/post/2467622927</guid><pubDate>Sun, 26 Dec 2010 01:23:58 -0800</pubDate></item><item><title>Central Park in December</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_le0y80MMAt1qehtsyo1_400.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;Central Park in December&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://melissadaimler.com/post/2466860435</link><guid>http://melissadaimler.com/post/2466860435</guid><pubDate>Sat, 25 Dec 2010 23:31:00 -0800</pubDate></item><item><title>CLO Magazine asks for favorite quotes on learning</title><description>&lt;p&gt;Here are some of my favorites:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span&gt;
&lt;h3 class="groups"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The important thing is not to stop questioning. - Albert Einstein&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/h3&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;span&gt;The illiterate of the 21st Century will not be those who cannot read or write, but those who cannot learn, unlearn and relearn. Alvin Toffler&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;Take the attitude of a student, never be too big to ask questions, never know too much to learn something new.-&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;Og Mandino&lt;img src="http://www.wpclipart.com/computer/keyboard_keys/computer_key_Quotation_Marks.png"/&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://melissadaimler.com/post/2411972079</link><guid>http://melissadaimler.com/post/2411972079</guid><pubDate>Tue, 21 Dec 2010 21:24:33 -0800</pubDate></item><item><title>"Learning is our greatest technology."</title><description>“Learning is our greatest technology.”&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; - &lt;em&gt;Justin Mass&lt;/em&gt;</description><link>http://melissadaimler.com/post/1534361928</link><guid>http://melissadaimler.com/post/1534361928</guid><pubDate>Wed, 10 Nov 2010 07:15:43 -0800</pubDate></item></channel></rss>

